Yes, it’s nice to look at all the pictures on tumblr, I find them extremely motivating, but I don’t compare myself to them, and I don’t want you to either! I know it sounds cliche, but love yourself at every weight, because if you don’t love yourself you can’t expect others to love you, and also because if you don’t love yourself now, it isn’t guaranteed that you’ll love yourself after.
Life is not a race, don’t compare yourself to where your friends or family members are in their lives. If you try to do something just to please someone else, chances are you’ll fail. Do it for you and no one else. Surround yourself with positive people, and if you don’t have anyone that can be that for you, then message me! I’m here for you at any given time. I’ll tell you all that I know, and if I don’t have an answer, I will do my damned best to find you one. We’ll do this together<3
